The only other truly significant boyfriend I ever had, decades ago - who has had an enormous impact on my life - once told me that I am selfish. I don't remember my age at the time - I was 16 or 17 perhaps - but I never forgot that. For some years, I didn't … Continue reading Turns Out I Really Am Selfish
Those are my rings in the picture, my weathered hand. Thirty years ago, this hand looked younger, less wrinkled ... but it was attached to a younger, less-wrinkled me. Those wrinkles have been earned. Were this not a relatively new set of rings (you know, weight gain, damage, etc.), I am certain that, if you … Continue reading Marriage: The One Question We Always Get and the Answer
In this universe, life is good. Celebrating 30 years of marriage to the best man I've ever known ... in Jamaica!